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Alum and Student Vets Tour Their ‘Forever Home’—Alumnae House

The Alumnae House has been a vibrant part of the Vassar community for more than a century. But as Alisa Swire ’84, a member of the Alumnae/i Association of Vassar College (AAVC) Board of Directors, noted during a veterans event there on October 8, not everyone is aware of how it serves the Vassar community. Nineteen student and alum veterans joined in the tour and reception planned by the AAVC, the staff of the Office of Advancement and the Alumnae House, and by Colleen Mallet, Vassar’s Director of Veteran Students Outreach and Support.

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Colleen Mallet, Director of Vassar’s Veteran Students Outreach and Support, greets Caleb DiBartolo’26 during a tour of Alumnae House. Mallet organized the tour in collaboration with Martha Barry ‘86, Alumnae House Manager, the Alumnae/i Association of Vassar College (AAVC), and the Office of Advancement.
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“The Alumnae House is a hidden gem that some of you, especially undergrads, don’t know about,” Swire said as she addressed those in attendance in the house’s library. “This place is here for all of you.”

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AAVC member Alison Swire ’84, former vice chair of the AAVC’s Alumnae House Committee, recounted some of the history of the century-old “Forever Home.”
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Alumnae House Manager Martha Barry ’86 and Sharon Parkinson, Director of Multicultural and Affinity Engagement in the Office of Advancement, echoed those sentiments. “Welcome to Alumnae House; it’s a ‘forever home’ for all of you,” Barry said. She said the building has 20 guest rooms, 13 of which had been recently renovated, thanks to a $1 million gift to the College. She said she and her staff host more than 200 catered events each year — weddings, funeral receptions, baby showers, and other occasions for members of the Vassar community and the general public.

Parkinson said she was especially glad to be introducing veterans to the Alumnae House. “You have served others, so we’d like to be able to serve you,” she said.

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Army veteran and Associate Professor and Chair of Education Jaime Del Razo (second from left) greets James Mills (right) of the Office of Advancement at the start of the tour. Others in photo: Colleen Mallet and vet alums Luis Arguello ’22, Jaco Chery ’15, and Ann Wilthew ’25.
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Following the remarks in the library, Barry led the group on a tour of some of the guest rooms, and then everyone adjourned to the Pub for snacks and libations.

Two veterans who attended the gathering said they were glad to have learned more about the Alumnae House. “I’d seen it many times while I was here, but I’d never been inside until I attended an event for veteran grads,” said Navy vet Jaco Chery ’25.

Navy vet Lilly Kinney ’28 said it was her first time inside the building since she arrived at Vassar. “I never knew much about the place and didn’t know it was open to all of us,” she said.

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Vassar vets who toured Alumnae House pose with AAVC member Alisa Swire (front row, right) for a group photo. Back row (left to right): Leon Moore ’26, Seth Jenkins ’26, Seth Estivs ’28, Abel Rodriguez ’29, Boe Htoo ’29, Andrew Casperson ’26, Justin White ’26 and Caleb DiBartolo ’26. Front: Kari Maschhoff, non-degree student, and Lilly Kinney ’28.
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Mallet called the event a great success. “It was a wonderful way to bring together new students, returning students, and alums who all share a common theme of serving or having served our country,” she said. “They were able to learn about the deep history of Alumnae House and their place in it. When I first came to Vassar, the Pub was a popular place for lunch. It was magical seeing it come to life again; it was really special to see 'my' students enjoying the space. Everyone is asking when the next Pub night might be.”

Posted
November 3, 2025